I could stand to incorporate a little more aftercare into my sexytime routine-especially considering my boo’s love language is words of affirmation and physical touch. (Not sure of your partner’s love language? Here’s how to talk about it-and other convos for a healthy sex life.)
One Sunday after toying around with some new pleasure products, my partner and I decided to give more intentional aftercare a try. We spent hours appreciating, spooning, and loving on each other. As you might guess, it was romantic as shit and really opened a door for us to talk about our
Redefine Shower Sex
The consensus among Redditors is that shower sex is, well, awful, and best left to the movies. “0/10 would recommend, I’m staying to regular ol’ cramped car or bed sex,” writes one Reddit. “I fear for my life when I’m [having sex] in the shower,” writes another.
Despite this seemingly universal stance against shower sex, there’s a whole thread of tips on making it better. (Related: A Sexologist’s Top Tips for Making Shower Sex Amazing)
Considering my partner and I regularly shower together but rarely engage in hanky-panky while there, we decided to give one of the tips a try: Replace penetrative shower play with foreplay.
“Shower sex, as hot as it may sound, can be physically very taxing and dangerous, especially when there’s penetration involved,” says Finn. Continuar a ler “As a self-acknowledged workaholic, it can be hard for me to make time for sex, let alone post-sex cuddles”